The sun supercharges libidos – and here six women tell Claire Dunwell and Mel Fallowfield all their lusty secrets, from al-fresco fun to holiday jet romps…
We joined mile-high club… it sets up for steamy sex on holiday
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COSMETICS practitioner Ila Dawn, 47, and construction worker Dan Lye, 44, have been together for two years. They live separately in Maidstone, Kent. Ila says of joining the mile-high club with him on a holiday flight..
“Snuggling up to Dan on a night flight to Jamaica I was already in holiday mode — even the idea of sun makes me frisky.
We started stroking each other then he suggested we went to the toilet.
We were flying with my two kids, 14 and seven, from a previous relationship and Dan’s ten-year-old daughter but they were asleep.
So we slipped off. It was thrilling how naughty we were — he had to put his hand over my mouth to stop me making noise.
It set us up for the holiday and we had sex every night — we’d wait till the kids were asleep and lock ourselves in the bathroom.
Dan and I have history, too. We met while clubbing in Ibiza. After our second date he moved into my hotel room. It was lust at first sight and turned to love.
We went back the next year and wanted to celebrate our anniversary. Staying in a villa with our three kids and a friend made it hard but my friend offered to look after the kids and we went out.
The heat, dancing and cocktails meant we couldn’t contain ourselves.
So we slipped off to the loos. We had full sex, and in the middle someone banged on the door — but we made them wait.”
We were caught on our villa terrace
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FESTIVAL organiser Abby Short, 60, is married to Chris, 65, and they live near Chelmsford in Essex, with their 24-year-old son. Abby says…
“Chris and I have been married for nearly 25 years but I fancy him as much as ever. And that ramps up even further when we’re abroad and the weather is hot.
A few years ago we bought a three-bedroom villa on the Costa Blanca in Spain, and on Sundays a nearby bar has an oldies afternoon when everyone over 50 goes and drinks sangria and dances.
It’s liberating and fun.
So liberating that the first time we went, it got us in the mood for some hanky-panky.
When we arrived home Chris pounced on me on the terrace and we started getting down to it — outside in the sunshine without a care in the world.
It was all going swimmingly until I looked up and saw the neighbour across the road was trimming her bush and could see everything.
In my sangria haze I thought it was funny and started giggling, before we moved inside.
But the next morning I was mortified — wondering what she must think of us.
She’s in her seventies and retired but used to be a regular on TV.
I decided to brazen it out and invited her round for lunch for the next week.”
She never mentioned our saucy “siesta”, so we didn’t either and we became good friends.
To this day I have no idea just how much of an eyeful she got.
We still go to that bar every Sunday when at the villa and it works wonders — you feel so free when away.
Just rubbing sun cream into Chris’s back is a turn-on and it can lead to a sexy massage.
I had sex in the sea at 5pm
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MUM-of-two Carla Crivaro, 44, from Southport, is a therapist and currently single. She says…
“Last summer I was on holiday on a Greek island with my then boyfriend of 18 months. My children were at home with their father who I’m separated from.
We’d spent the day on the beach and it was boiling so we were in and out of the sea to cool down — playing around, ducking each other and pretend-wrestling.
But toward the end of the day, at around 5pm, as the beach started to clear, my boyfriend beckoned me back into the water.
He started kissing me, soon his hands were all over me, and within just a couple of minutes we were having sex.
It was a huge thrill to think that people on the beach could see us and might have been wondering what we were up to.
Maybe I have an exhibitionist streak but it didn’t feel too outrageous because they might have thought we were still only messing around.
These days there’s always a worry that when you’re having al-fresco fun people might video you.
But of course in the sea, when you’re bobbing around, people can’t see anything or know for certain.
I split up with my boyfriend at the end of last year but my desire for experimental sex is very much still there — I can picture myself lying on the warm sand at night and making love.
Going on holiday always makes me feel turned on, as you’ve got time and space and no to-do list to stop you being in the mood for sex.
You also tend to have deeper conversations and feel more connected, which puts you in the right frame of mind to have wilder times.”
We’ve perfected shower quickies
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BUSINESS manager Sam Creamer, 38, and her husband Terry, 44, a taxi driver, live in Waterlooville, Hants. They have two children together and Terry a son by a previous partner. She says…
“When we were on holiday a few years back we took my stepson. He was only small and it was hard finding time to have sex.
The only thing we could do was lock ourselves in the bathroom and have a steamy shower together.
We were in the middle of an extremely horny session when we heard knocking on the front door of where we were staying.
We were going to ignore it but my stepson let them in — we were away with Terry’s brother and his partner and it was them.
So we were there in the shower desperately trying to finish while they were chatting away, with just a thin door between us. It was a bit of a mood killer. They must have known but none of us said anything.
The funny thing is, that wasn’t our only sexcapade that went wrong that holiday. A few days later we hid ourselves away on the balcony and had full sex, we thought undetected — until we’d finished and heard cheering from down below.
Terry was proud and did a cheeky thumbs-up and whoop back to them. I was mortified but also doubled over laughing.
Now, with two more kids, it’s tamer but we wait till they are asleep and slope off to the shower for a quickie.
It seems a shame to waste the holiday horn.”
We gave the golfers a right old eyeful
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RETIRED civil servant Emma Parsons Reid, 58, lives with her husband Kev, 64, a retired engineer, in Cardiff. She says . . .
When you’re away it’s as though the whole world disappears and you can just concentrate on your relationship.
At home, my days are often taken up with caring for my five grandchildren and elderly parents.
But when you’re away, the whole day has an air of sexiness about it. You’re more likely to make an effort with your appearance and you’re having leisurely lunches with wine.
It’s led to many sexy occasions with us. But the funniest one was when we were away at a golfing hotel.
We’d had a lovely day and ended up sitting on our balcony in the evening. One thing led to another and I ended up sitting astride Kev and having sex.
There I was, bouncing up and down on him, when he got the worst cramp and cried out in agony.
It made the people down below look up and they saw exactly what we were doing and gave us a round of applause.
We were just frozen in position for what felt like hours — but it was probably only moments before I ran inside.
Another time, staying in a hotel, we had amazing steamy, tipsy sex, and then fell asleep stark naked.
Kev woke up needing the loo, but got the wrong door and ended up peeing in the corridor. He then couldn’t wake me up to get back inside and was left standing in the nude, needing the night manager.
The ironic thing is, when we take the grandchildren camping I turn into a prude. We have no sex and I will berate couples who have loud sex near us.”
Celibate holidays boost libidos
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CONTENT creator Aimee Bradley, 41, lives with her husband Davin, 42, an electrical engineer, and their three kids, aged 12, six and three near Havant, Hants. She says…
“I’d love to be having huge amounts of sex when I’m away — believe me when I say that being on holiday always makes me feel frisky.
Pre-children, we would do it two or three times a day on holiday.
Sometimes we would spend the whole day in bed having sex, other times we would venture as far as the hot tub.
We just couldn’t seem to keep our hands off one another.
But now we have children. They don’t sleep well at the best of times — and on holiday they are worse as they are always so overexcited and hyped up.
Our littlest one feels separation anxiety and wants one of us to be with him all the time. I would have more chance of being flown to the moon with Katy Perry than having sex while we’re away.
I find it frustrating but a turn-on — now, I look forward to getting home so we can go back to having a sex life.
There’s a huge build-up of sexual tension and we can’t wait to rip each other’s clothes off.
I love my kids and would not be without them but I so miss those naughty holidays we had.”
