Why the Easter weekend is THE time to reignite your sex life & an expert’s best tips whatever your issue

CHOCOLATE isn’t the only thing that you can treat your partner with this Easter weekend. 

It turns out that there’s something else that Brits will be just as happy with over the long weekend.

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Our exclusive Spring Sex Survey found that 65 per cent of 18-plus readers have an increased desire for sex as they are more relaxed. 

Sexpert and relationship expert Annabelle Knight believes there’s no better time than this weekend to reignite your sex life.

She says: “Easter is the ultimate underdog when it comes to reigniting your sex life.

“The days are longer, the weather’s warming up, and there’s something undeniably sexy about shedding those winter layers. 

“Plus, with the long weekend and chocolate literally everywhere, what better excuse is there to get a little decadent when it comes to your sex life?

“Remember… Easter might be about rebirth, bunnies and chocolate, but there’s no reason it can’t also be about resurrecting your sex life as well.”

Here, Annabelle reveals gives her eight top tips – and a few treats – to follow to ensure that this Easter weekend could become your steamiest one yet.

Spring clean your sex life

If your sex life has gotten a little… predictable, it’s time for a refresh. Doing the same thing over and over dulls desire. 

Try a new setting, time of day, or position. 

Even small changes can make a big difference in how excited you feel.

Try: Skip the bed and head to the sofa or kitchen counter. 

Try the “Edge of Glory” position, where one partner is seated on the edge of the table or counter, the other is standing. Close, intense, and full of eye contact.

Chocolate isn’t just for eggs

Easter treats aren’t just for kids. Melt some chocolate and use it to trace patterns across your partner’s body, then lick it off slowly. 

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The temperature change will help to make them more receptive to touch. 

Remember, the best sex is safer sex and in this scenario, it means checking the temperature before you play.

Sensual, slow touch, especially paired with an aphrodisiac, like chocolate activates your brain’s anticipation and pleasure centres.

Try: A mini blindfolded chocolate-tasting session. Feed each other different treats and let it evolve into something a little more… hands-on.

Plant some seeds of sensuality

Foreplay doesn’t have to start in the bedroom. Do something emotionally connecting first…like planting herbs, painting eggs, or cooking together.

Activities that involve teamwork and physical closeness can reignite emotional intimacy, which in turn fuels sexual chemistry.

Try: Spend the day creating something together. Then reward yourselves with the “Butterfly” position, which comprises lying face-to-face with legs intertwined.

Intimate, slow, and great for expanding on the emotional connection you’ve built during the day.

Try an adults only hunt

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Hide sexy notes, mini gifts, or suggestive treats around the house for your partner to find throughout the weekend.

Anticipation is one of the most powerful aphrodisiacs. Flirtation over time builds tension that pays off tenfold.

Try: Include Sexy IOUs like “Good for one back massage,” “Oral surprise,” or “Your choice of fantasy tonight.” Make the final egg the location of your where you want your rendezvous to be.

Play with power

Try a little role reversal or light dominance play. Power dynamics… when done safely and consensually, can be thrilling and trust-building. 

Start with something small, like giving one partner control of the evening’s events and go from there.

Try: Add an Easter twist to your play with a remote-controlled love egg or vibrator.

Hand the remote control to your partner and let them take control of your pleasure.

Wake up right

Morning sex is often neglected, but Easter weekend offers the opportunity for lazy lie-ins and cosy canoodling.

You’re less stressed in the morning and your natural hormones are at play. It’s a great time to reconnect physically.

Try: Start with cuddling and light touch. Try spooning to do this in… it’s easy, relaxed, and perfect for groggy but eager mornings.

Have a laugh

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They say laughter is the best medicine, but did you know it’s also a powerful aphrodisiac.

Watch something funny, do something silly, and let yourselves be a bit ridiculous. When we laugh, we get a little boost of the feel-good hormone oxytocin.

This sense of shared joy creates intimacy, which is a strong foundation for great sex.

Try: Take the pressure off. Try a novelty position from a sex dice set or attempt a Kama Sutra pose you know will lead to lots of fun.

Explore space

Desire needs a little distance to grow. Use the Easter weekend to spend a few hours apart doing your own thing. 

The saying ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder’ is an oldie, but a goodie! Autonomy creates mystery. When you come back together, you have more to talk about… and more reason to connect.

Try: Meet up later as if it’s a date. Text flirtatiously throughout the day.

Reignite the expectation you had in the early days, this creates something we call positive anticipation, which is key to a happy and healthy sex life.