The 7 sex positions to unleash a little ho-ho oh & how the candy cane position is perfect for those lazy cosy nights

HOLIDAYS are coming, and you should be too. 

According to Bumble’s 2025 dating trends, we are officially in the era of Micro-mance.

There are currently around 92% of singles who believe that small, heartfelt actions – like a playful new sex position or a cheeky festive text – speak louder than grand, expensive romantic gestures.

And nearly 50% of people say that ‘geeking out’ on a shared hobby or activity (like trying out a new sex advent calendar together) is their top form of intimacy this year.

With present-buying and festive prep taking over December entirely, why not sprinkle a little cheer into your love life, with seven Christmas-inspired sex positions – Santa hats optional.

Annabelle Knight, sex expert at Lovehoney, says: “Sex may be the last thing on your mind during this hectic time of year – but it doesn’t have to be! 

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“With the cold, dark nights drawing in, now is the perfect time to grab your partner and get cosy. 

“Put intimacy at the top of your Christmas list this year, and indulge in a little frisky festive fun with these seven playful positions.” 

Here, Annabelle reveals her top seven festive sex positions that’ll have you sleighing ho-ho ohhh

Reindeer-Style

A festive twist on one of Britain’s favourites – doggy-style.

Assume the usual position – giver kneeling behind, and receiver on all fours in front – but the difference in reindeer-style is that the giver holds (gently) onto their partner’s hair, as if they were driving a sleigh.

Jingle Balls

This one takes inspiration from reverse cowgirl, but requires a little more agility and reach.

The giver sits on a chair or with their back against the wall – so they are sat up rather than lying down – with the receiver sitting on their lap. 

The ‘rider’ will need to rise up on their toes and bounce; but they can also lean forward slightly – giving the giver a fantastic view – and play with their partner’s balls.

The Stuffed Turkey

Get ready for a deep stuffing with this one.

The receiver lies on their back in missionary, but then bends their knees and brings them as close to their armpits as possible – as if you’re a turkey ready to go into the oven. 

Putting a cushion under the receiver’s lower body can help you get a little deeper with this one, without it being too uncomfortable. 

Snow Angel

The perfect go-to position for when you’ve over-indulged on food and the thought of any movement just isn’t doing it for you.

Simply lay on the bed – or floor – with your arms and legs spread wide – a la snow angel – while your partner goes down on you.

Return the favour once you’re done, or encourage your partner to pleasure themselves while venturing down south for double the fun. 

The Elf on The Shelf

Take your Christmas pleasure to a whole other level – literally – by having the receiver sit on a sturdy surface – like a countertop or solid table – while the other positions between their legs and has at it. 

Keep as much of your clothes on for this one, only revealing what you need to, for some passionate spontaneity.

Candy Canes

A variation on spooning to help you reconnect if you’ve spent the festive season rushed off your feet.

The receiver lies on their side, with the partner close behind to enter either vaginally or anally, creating a cosy candy cane shape.

It’s a low-effort position that allows for wandering hands – perfect for lazy Betwixtmas mornings or post-party cuddles.

The gift exchange

Christmas is a time for giving and receiving, so why not do both at the same time?

Assume your usual 69 position but both lie on your sides and part your legs to give easy access to one another’s genitals – much comfier, and no neck strain for the person on top.

This is the perfect lazy position for a discreet and quiet session where both of your mouths will be occupied.